CBE President: The Light of Gratitude

This article first appeared in our Nov/Dec'25 edition of The Bulletin

“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.”
- Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, z”l

As we enter the season of Chanukah, these words of Rabbi Sacks remind us that gratitude is more than a feeling - it is a foundation for how we live our lives. When we begin with gratitude, every other virtue flows from it: kindness, compassion, generosity, and hope.

A few years ago during Chanukah, I found myself standing in the kitchen surrounded by wrapping paper, cookie crumbs, and children debating whether eight nights of gifts meant eight big presents or one “real” one and seven “token” ones. As I looked around at the joyful chaos - half-eaten latkes, a candle leaning sideways in the menorah, and laughter echoing through the house - I suddenly realized: this is exactly what gratitude looks like. It’s not neat or perfect. It’s laughter, togetherness, and the kind of beautiful mess that reminds us how lucky we are to have people who fill our homes with light.

The story of Chanukah is itself a story of gratitude. Faced with scarcity, our ancestors could have turned away in despair. Instead, they chose to give thanks for what they had - to light the menorah with a single jar of oil - and to trust that their faith would carry them forward. That simple act of courage and gratitude became the spark for a miracle still celebrated thousands of years later.

In our community at Congregation Beth Emeth, I see gratitude lived out daily. I see it in our clergy, who give of themselves with wisdom and care. I see it in our staff, who dedicate their talents to ensuring our congregation thrives. I see it in our volunteers, whose energy and commitment light the way for others. And I see it in all of you -our members - whose participation, kindness, and support make Beth Emeth a true home.

As your president, I am deeply grateful for the honor of serving you. Each gathering, each program, and each prayer service reminds me that we are more than a congregation - we are a family, bound together by shared tradition, values, and a vision for the future. Gratitude calls us to see not only what we have received, but also what we are called to give.

This Chanukah, may we each find ways to let gratitude guide us. May the menorah’s light remind us that even the smallest flame of thanks can illuminate the darkest night. And may we carry that light into the year ahead, building a community rooted in gratitude, joy, and hope.

From my family to yours, I wish you a Chanukah filled with light, laughter, gratitude, and peace. Be sure to visit our Chanukah page for all the ways you can celebrate with CBE.

Robin Sobol, CBE President